Its Bigger Than Microaggression

           
              Saying things without actually knowing what your trying to say can hurt people and it can hurt yourself. When you try to compliment someone about something and say it in a way that's not fully polite it seems like your trying to hurt the person. A slight word change can make your sentence seem negative and even though you didn't mean it that way it comes out to everyone that you did. People may think that you are not strong enough to actually say something negative about someone and may call you scared. They may also believe you are a mean and insensitive person who does not care about anyone's feelings but their own.If you are trying to say something you must do it fully and not stutter or change up the words. Compliment someone the best to your abilities so it does not seem like you are making fun of them instead you are complimenting them. Many people nowadays can interpret a sentence word and it may make you seem like the bad guy when you really aren't. Sometimes you have to help people understand the sentence fully by telling them it was a compliment or saying that you didn't mean for it to come out that way.Watching out for what you say is probably the easiest way to keep people off your back when talking, this helps out. Also being proud of what you say will help you because no one will be able to break you down when speaking.